Hello everyone, I'm an office worker approaching forty, and my work pressure is considerable. To be honest, in recent years I've felt somewhat inadequate in my married life. Sometimes when I'm not in good form, things finish a bit too quickly, and it leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I've read quite a few posts online and heard friends mention some products, but I never dared to try them casually. Then one time I happened to come across the introduction for Wannai Men's Delay Spray 10ML Long-Lasting Delay Improves Premature Ejaculation Gold Upgrade Version. It said it was a gold upgraded version, focused on long-lasting delay and improving premature ejaculation, and it was for external use, so I felt the risk was lower. I figured I'd buy it and give it a try, to see if I could regain some confidence.

The first time I used it was on a Friday night, after a shower, around nine o'clock. According to the instructions, I sprayed twice on the sensitive area, then gently spread it evenly with my fingers. At the time it felt a bit cool, with no stinging sensation, and the smell was quite faint—basically undetectable unless you got close. After spraying, I went to the living room to watch TV. After about 20 minutes, I felt a slight numbness in the sprayed area. It wasn't complete loss of sensation, but rather reduced sensitivity, a bit like a thin layer of local anesthetic.

At around 25 minutes, my wife came over, and we started getting intimate. To be honest, that numbness made me a bit uncomfortable at first—I felt like something was missing. But I did last much longer than usual. Normally, even on a good day, I'd last about 7 or 8 minutes. That night it felt like about 15 minutes—double the time. My wife was also pleasantly surprised, thinking I'd been secretly working out. Afterward, I went to rinse off, and the numbness completely faded within about half an hour, leaving no discomfort.

I've used it several more times since. I've found that the onset time really depends on individual constitution and how much you spray. Sometimes if I spray a bit more, or it absorbs quickly, I feel it in about 15 minutes. If I shower right after spraying, the effect is diminished, so I usually shower first, then spray, then wait 20–30 minutes for the effect to fully absorb before proceeding. On average, each time it helps me last about 5 to 10 minutes longer, and sometimes more when I'm in good form.

After using it several times, I think the advantages of Wannai Spray are quite obvious:

* Noticeable effect: The most direct feeling is that the time really is extended. For someone like me who occasionally "surrenders" too early, being able to last a few more minutes greatly reduces psychological pressure, and my confidence has come back quite a bit.
* Easy to use: Just spray and rub it in—simple to operate. The bottle is small and compact, convenient to carry when going out, and doesn't take up space.
* Few side effects: Personally, apart from the slight numbness after spraying, I haven't experienced systemic side effects like dizziness or rapid heartbeat. And after washing it off, the numbness fades quickly.

Of course, there are also some things I think could be improved or are inconvenient:

* Numbness affects the experience: Although it delays, it works by locally anesthetizing to reduce sensitivity. Sometimes it feels like "scratching an itch through a boot"—the pleasure isn't as intense. Especially right before climax, the sensation becomes a bit blurred, lacking the real, intense stimulation you normally feel. This is the part I struggle with most.
* Requires advance preparation: Each time you need to spray 20–30 minutes beforehand, which means you can't be too "spontaneous." Sometimes when the mood is strong, having to wait nearly half an hour is indeed a bit of a mood killer. If it could work immediately upon spraying, that would be perfect.
* Cleaning issue: Although the official statement says washing it off doesn't affect the effect, I personally feel that if you wash it off thoroughly, the effect is indeed weaker. If you don't wash, you worry your partner might notice the smell or numbness, affecting her experience. On this point, external long-lasting liquids generally have this concern.

I've also read some articles online about delay spray reviews and tried a few other products. Here's a brief comparison of the Wannai Gold Version and two other products I've used:

* Wannai Gold Version (Wannai Spray):
* Onset speed: About 15–25 minutes.
* Delay effect: Extends by 5–10 minutes; for me the effect is relatively stable.
* Numbness: Present, but relatively mild and acceptable; fades quickly after washing off.
* User experience: Faint smell, no stinging.
* Price: Medium to upper range.

* EROS Ilusi 101 (Ilusi Long-Lasting Liquid):
* Onset speed: Feels a bit faster, about 10–20 minutes.
* Delay effect: Also quite good, similar to Wannai, but sometimes the numbness feels stronger.
* Numbness: Slightly stronger than Wannai; sometimes feels like too much, affecting pleasure.
* User experience: Smell is a bit stronger than Wannai, but still acceptable.
* Price: Similar to Wannai, same tier.

* Japan Wannai Regular Version (Wannai Delay Liquid): (I used the older version before)
* Onset speed: About 20–30 minutes, a bit slower than the Gold Version.
* Delay effect: Also effective, but feels less stable than the Gold Version, and the extension is slightly shorter, about 3–7 minutes.
* Numbness: Slightly stronger than the Gold Version, and lasts longer.
* User experience: Smell is more noticeable; occasionally a slight stinging sensation.
* Price: Slightly lower than the Gold Version.

Overall, the Gold Version has indeed improved on numbness and onset speed, offering a better experience.

Having said all that, I think Wannai Men's Delay Spray is still worth a try for an ordinary consumer like me who wants to boost confidence and improve occasional premature ejaculation.

Who it's suitable for:
* People who occasionally experience premature ejaculation, or want to extend intimate time and enhance the experience.
* People who have concerns about oral medications and prefer external products.
* People willing to experiment and find the dosage and method that suits them best.
* People who want more control and confidence in their intimate relationships.

Who it's not suitable for:
* People who pursue ultimate pleasure and have zero tolerance for numbness. If you can't accept even a little numbness, then this type of product may not be for you.
* People with unrealistic expectations, hoping for a one-time fix to all problems. This is only an auxiliary product and cannot replace medical treatment.
* People with serious cardiovascular disease or other health issues who haven't consulted a doctor. Even though it's for external use, caution is always wise.
* People who find the cleaning and advance preparation of intimate items troublesome.

Finally, I want to say that these products are just tools—the key is communication and understanding between partners. If you have similar concerns, you might give it a try, but be sure to start with a small dose and find the method that suits you best. After all, a harmonious married life is what matters most.