Hello everyone, I'm Lao Wang, 39 years old this year. I'm usually quite busy with work, and life pressure is pretty high too. Over the past two years, I've been feeling a bit inadequate in my married life—sometimes my duration isn't ideal, and my hardness is occasionally unstable. Although this hasn't affected our relationship, it still bothers me, and I want to find a way to improve it.

I've heard friends recommend some oral men's health supplements before, but considering side effects and dependency, I never dared to try them easily. Later, I saw quite a few discussions online about topical products, saying they have relatively fewer side effects, so I thought I'd give them a try. I happened to come across Okamoto Silk Wing endurance cream. The description said it has an ointment texture and claims to delay while also improving hardness, which seemed to match my needs, so I bought one.

First Use: A Cautious Attempt

After receiving the product, I read the instructions, which said to apply it 20-30 minutes before intimacy. My first time using it was on a Friday night. After showering, around 9:30 PM, I squeezed out an amount the size of a grain of rice, gently applied it to the coronal sulcus and glans area, then massaged it a few times to ensure absorption. After applying, I felt a slight warmth locally, but no numbness—it felt similar to regular lubricant. After about 20 minutes, I began to feel that the sensitivity of the glans area had decreased, but not completely numb—it was more of a "dullness," as if the nerves were gently wrapped in a layer. It still felt like something when touched.

When about 30 minutes had passed, we started. To be honest, I was still a bit nervous at first, afraid it wouldn't work or the effect wouldn't be good. But in actual experience, it did last longer than usual. I normally last about 5-8 minutes, but this time it was about 15 minutes—I was pleasantly surprised. In terms of hardness, I think there was some improvement too; the whole process was quite firm. After finishing, cleaning was very easy, with no residue.

Subsequent Experience and Observations

With the success of the first time, my confidence increased greatly. I subsequently used it about four or five more times, with a few days between each use, trying different amounts and waiting times, and summarized some insights:

* Onset Time: It basically takes effect in about 20-30 minutes. If you apply a slightly larger amount or massage thoroughly, it takes effect faster—about 15 minutes to feel the effect. I tried applying it and only waiting 10 minutes once, and the effect wasn't as noticeable. So the 20-30 minute waiting time recommended in the instructions is quite reliable.
* Duration of Effect: Based on my experience, each use extends my duration by about 10-20 minutes, reaching about 15-25 minutes overall. This is already a huge improvement for me. Moreover, this delay isn't achieved by numbing the nerves—pleasure still exists, it's just that the ejaculation threshold is raised, making it easier to control.
* Hardness Improvement: Besides delay, I did feel that hardness improved as well, especially right before climax. Normally there might be some softening, but after using Okamoto Silk Wing Endurance Cream, it stays firm for longer, making the process smoother and improving my partner's experience too.
* Dosage: I found that an amount the size of a grain of rice is enough for me. Applying too much feels wasteful, and the effect improvement isn't obvious. So I suggest starting with a small amount and finding the dosage that suits you best.

Pros and Cons

Pros:

1. Natural Effect, No Numbness: This is what I'm most satisfied with. Many delay sprays bring strong numbness, affecting pleasure and even making the penis lose sensation. But Okamoto Silk Wing ointment gives a mild dullness—sensitivity is reduced, but touch and pleasure remain, allowing you to better enjoy the process.
2. Hardness Improvement: Besides delay, its auxiliary effect on hardness also surprised me, making the whole process more confident.
3. Easy to Clean, No Residue: Water-soluble formula, easily washed off with water afterward, no greasy feeling or odor, doesn't affect oral sex (though for safety, cleaning is still recommended).
4. Compact and Portable: The ointment packaging is very compact, doesn't take up space in a bag or drawer, very convenient.

Cons/Inconveniences:

1. Waiting Time: You need to wait about 20-30 minutes before each use. For those who are spontaneous or impatient, this may require some planning ahead, which is slightly inconvenient. Unlike some sprays that claim to take effect in minutes.
2. Individual Differences in Effect: Although it works for me, I know the effects of such products vary from person to person. A friend of mine also tried it, and he said it worked but wasn't as noticeable as my experience. So for first-time buyers, I suggest trying a small package first.
3. Slightly Higher Price: Compared to some ordinary delay sprays, Okamoto Silk Wing Endurance Cream is a bit more expensive. Although one small tube can be used many times, it's still an expense in the long run.

Simple Comparison with Other Products

I've also briefly looked into some other types of men's health supplements. Here I'll make a simple comparison between the Okamoto Silk Wing ointment I've used and the more common delay sprays and some enlargement creams on the market, hoping to give everyone some reference. If you want to learn more about enlargement creams, you can check out this article.

* Okamoto Silk Wing Endurance Cream (Ointment)
* Onset Time: About 20-30 minutes.
* Duration of Effect: Extends by about 10-20 minutes, pleasure retained, helps with hardness.
* Side Effects/Feeling: Mild dullness, no numbness, no burning sensation, easy to clean.
* Main Benefits: Lasting delay, auxiliary hardness improvement.
* Traditional Delay Sprays (e.g., Pirelli, Black Panther)
* Onset Time: About 10-30 minutes varying, some products are faster.
* Duration of Effect: Delay effect is usually obvious, but some products may cause strong numbness.
* Side Effects/Feeling: Some have numbness, burning sensation, some products have odor, cleaning may not be as thorough.
* Main Benefits: Strong delay effect.
* Enlargement/Thickening Products (e.g., Titan Gel, XXL Enlargement Cream)
* Onset Time: Only effective with long-term use, not an immediate effect.
* Duration of Effect: Targets size improvement, unrelated to immediate delay.
* Side Effects/Feeling: Usually no immediate side effects, but requires consistent use, effects vary by individual.
* Main Benefits: Size improvement, not immediate delay.

Additionally, there are some oral supplements on the market, such as Fujisu Fast-Acting. The mechanism of these products is completely different from topical ointments, mainly focusing on overall state improvement and vitality supplementation, rather than direct local delay.

Summary and Recommendations

Based on my experience, Okamoto Silk Wing Endurance Cream is a product worth trying, especially suitable for the following people:

* Suitable for:
* Those who resist the numbness of traditional delay sprays and pursue a more natural delay experience that retains pleasure.
* Those who occasionally feel inadequate, want stable performance, and have certain requirements for hardness.
* Those who want to try topical products but worry about side effects and prefer mild formulas.
* Those who value product privacy and convenience and want easy cleaning.
* Not suitable for:
* Those who pursue extreme delay effects, don't mind numbness, or have extremely high sensitivity requiring strong suppression.
* Those with extremely high requirements for waiting time, hoping it takes effect in minutes.
* Those who are very price-sensitive with limited budgets.
* Those with a history of severe skin allergies or wounds on the genital area—consult a doctor before use.

In summary, this ointment was a good experience for me. It found a great balance between delay and hardness improvement, allowing me to enjoy intimacy while also regaining confidence. I hope my honest sharing can be helpful to everyone!