Recently, several friends have privately messaged me, saying they want to buy delay sprays, but the information online is too chaotic, and they're afraid of buying fakes or ending up numb and feeling nothing. I've tried over a dozen sprays myself, from cheap Indian oils costing a few dozen yuan to original imported ones worth hundreds, and I've fallen into plenty of pitfalls. Today, I'll use the Seikei imported male delay spray 30ml as an example to break down the four most common mistakes beginners make, clearly and thoroughly.

Pitfall 1: Believing "The Numbness, the Better," Only to End Up Like a Block of Wood

The most common mistake beginners make is thinking that a tingling sensation on the glans means the product is "working." In reality, many low-priced sprays rely on alcohol or anesthetic ingredients (like lidocaine or benzocaine), delaying ejaculation by forcibly reducing sensitivity. The result is a penis that feels like it's wearing thick socks, with all pleasure lost, and your partner will feel like you're just going through the motions mechanically.

How to identify?

How to avoid it? When choosing a product, prioritize checking user reviews for mentions of the word "numb." If many people say "slight numbness is acceptable," it's an anesthetic type. Beginners are advised to start with plant-based formulas.

Pitfall 2: Buying Fakes or Knockoffs, Wasting Money and Harming Your Health

The delay spray market is rife with counterfeits. The packaging is often well-copied, but the price is ridiculously low. A genuine 30ml bottle of Seikei imported spray typically costs between 200-300 yuan. If you see one for 99 yuan with free shipping, it's almost certainly fake. Counterfeits may contain illegal hormones or industrial alcohol, which can damage nerves with long-term use.

How to authenticate?

Price reference: Similar non-numbing imported sprays, like EROS Germany Imported Male Endurance Liquid 101, are also in the 200-400 yuan range, while classic Japanese brands like Marunai are slightly cheaper, around 150-250 yuan.

Pitfall 3: Incorrect Usage, Leading to Either No Effect or Strong Side Effects

Many people spray a large amount directly onto the glans, resulting in a burning sensation or no effect after half an hour. Using a spray requires technique.

Correct usage:
1. Apply 20-30 minutes before intercourse. Wash and dry the penis before spraying.
2. Spray 1-2 times on the coronal sulcus and the glans body, then spread evenly with your fingers. Avoid the urethral opening, or it will sting.
3. Start with a small dose: spray once, see the effect, then adjust. Seikei is safe for oral use, indicating high safety, but beginners should start with the minimum amount.
4. Wait 10-15 minutes for absorption. If you want to avoid your partner tasting it, you can wash off the surface residue with water (this won't affect the effect, as it has already been absorbed into the skin). Seikei is safe for oral use, but washing it off is cleaner.

Common mistakes:

When I used Japanese Marunai Delay Spray, I sprayed three times the first time and was so numb I could barely feel anything. I later adjusted to 1-2 sprays, which was just right.

Pitfall 4: Ignoring Individual Differences, Assuming Others' Dosage Is the Standard

Everyone's sensitivity is different. For the same spray, one person might get a 20-minute delay with one spray, while another might still ejaculate prematurely after three sprays. Beginners often blindly copy the dosages from online reviews, resulting in either too strong an effect or not enough.

Suggested approach:

This 30ml Seikei bottle, at two sprays per use, lasts about 30-40 times, offering good value. Don't waste the included travel-sized condoms; use them together for added safety.

How to Choose Among Competitors?

Mainstream delay sprays on the market fall into three categories:
1. Anesthetic type (e.g., Pirelli, Black Panther) – Strong effect but intense numbness, suitable for experienced users.
2. Plant-based type (e.g., Seikei, Marunai) – Gentle, non-numbing, ideal for beginners and those seeking a natural experience.
3. Conditioning type (e.g., Indian oil) – Requires long-term use, slow to show results.

For beginners, I recommend Seikei or Marunai. A friend once asked about Pirelli Delay Spray versus Seikei. My take: Pirelli offers longer delay but causes numbness, while Seikei is non-numbing but has a shorter delay (about 30 minutes). If your partner's experience matters more to you, Seikei is the better choice.

Safety Reminders

Additionally, if you're taking blood pressure medication or cardiovascular drugs, consult a doctor before use. Some anesthetic ingredients can be absorbed through the skin in small amounts, and while the risk of interaction with other drugs is low, it exists.

Summary: How Should Beginners Choose?

I also fell into pitfalls when I first used delay sprays. Later, I realized that choosing the right product and using it correctly is more important than blindly pursuing longer duration. The Seikei series does a good job balancing effect and comfort. You can give it a try.